I am excited to announce that my latest single “Why Can’t I Forget You?” has been released on all the streaming platforms Today. I would like to thank my good Friend and Producer, Jarome Matthew, ( of ProSoul Studios ) for writing such a meaningful song for me.  Anyone who has felt the pain of great loss will understand and connect with his carefully chosen lyrics.
You can give it a listen here: https://fanlink.to/wcify 

     It’s been a while since I was last in the Recording Studio, but after several challenging years, I’m happy to say that I was able to get back in and record a new Single with my Friend/Producer Jarome Matthew, back in June.

     The track is called “Why Can’t I Forget You?”, and both the music and lyrics were written by Jarome, as he knows I have had a hard time dealing with several losses over the past few years. In my Family, we lost both our Sister and Mother ( only 5 weeks apart ) a few years ago, then our Dad, last year. To say that these deaths left us devastated, would be a huge understatement. It makes you feel as though the rug has been pulled out from under your feet, and like your World no longer makes sense. Some losses in Life hit harder than others, of course, depending on the relationship, and the circumstances. I now feel as though my Life is divided into a “Before” and “After”.  Many People say “Time heals all wounds”, but Anyone who has lost a Loved One knows, this is simply not true.

     Whether you have actually lost a Loved One, or been through a painful breakup of a Relationship, this song speaks to that feeling of just not being able to “let go”, or “move on” in Life. I think it is something most of us can relate to. Grieving loss of Life ( or Love ) has no time limit. I find it sometimes feels as though Someone pressed the “pause” button, and you simply cannot go back to feeling many of the things you could before. We may want to move forward, so we can try and “live” again, but it is not always that easy… if only the painful wounds of the memories didn’t feel so raw and real. Jarome’s thoughtful lyrics certainly resonated with me.

     Jarome and I had a lot of fun spending the Day together, and recording the new song in his Vancouver Studio. It was great to finally be able to get together, as he had been away in his Beijing Studio the past few years.  My Husband snapped a few photos for us.

     The song will be released next week, and I’ll announce it with another post then.

     The past 3 or more years have been very different for most of us. I don’t think any of us thought our lives would be altered so much, or that we’d experience living through a Pandemic. It certainly changed almost every aspect of our everyday lives, and taught us a lot of things. Although things will never be the same again, it is finally starting to feel like we are getting closer to being able to experience some semblance of “Life” again.

     One of the hardest things about the Pandemic for me, personally, was not being able to sing, dance, or hug People.  All of these things make me feel happy, and bring me joy. Not being allowed to do them for such a long time was really hard for many of us.

     I didn’t sing for over 3 years, but this year, I am happy to say that I have been making up for lost time. A few of us that used to sing together with The Funtastics for several years ( mostly putting on Fundraisers for the local Seniors’ Centre etc. )  formed a smaller version of the group in the Spring, and have been putting on hour-long Shows at local Care Homes. We have done 3 so far, in March, April, and May, and have been invited back for a couple more, soon. This has been a great way to get back into it, and it has probably been one of the most rewarding things I’ve done in a long while. I love to sing the “Oldies”, so this is the perfect Audience for it. There is something so special about seeing People seemingly “come alive” when they hear beautiful songs that truly mean something to them. It is so amazing to watch their eyes light up, and witness the big smiles forming on their faces. Many sing along, sway in their seats, and those that can, even get up and dance. Ah, the transformative power of music!

Singing at the Care Home

     In June, I performed with 15 other Female Vocalists in a special concert honouring The Legendary Ladies of Jazz, to kick off our local Jazz Festival. That was quite an experience with an amazingly talented and uplifting group of wonderful Ladies. Also in June, I was finally able to get back into the Recording Studio and record a new Single. ( more about that in my next blog post ) 

     I had really missed being able to perform, and am so glad that we are able to, once again. I think most of us can agree that a Life without music is not a whole lot of fun. I am so grateful to all the fantastic loving and supportive People in my Life who continue to give me opportunities to sing – there really is no other feeling quite like it.

     It’s been quite a while since my last Blog Post, but I am happy to let you All know that my Producer and I have recently put all of my Music back up online, for streaming and downloads. All 3 of my Singles, the Original “Cool and Careless”, my remakes of 80’s Classics “I Want To Know What Love Is” and “(Keep Feeling) Fascination “as well as my full CD, are now available again.  My CD “I’m Beginning To See The Light” ( with Big Band/Swing/ Lounge/Jazzy Classics ) is also available to physically purchase on Amazon. ( All links are on my Music Page )

     Please visit my Website, and go to the “Music” Page to check it all out: https://heatherdore.com/music-2

     It feels great to have it all back up again, and to be working on a new Song, as well. More about that later…

     Thanks so much to all my Family, Friends, Fans and Supporters for continuing to be there for me, on my Musical Journey.

For those of you that follow my Blog Posts, you know that my Husband and I went to Tofino last Summer, and spent much of our time driving from there to Ucluelet ( about half an hour away ) to go hiking every Day.  This year, we decided it would make much more sense to just stay in Ucluelet, since most of our time would be spent hiking again.

As always, I spent many hours checking out places to stay, online.  We wanted something close to the hiking trails, where we could have some peace and quiet and privacy. We weren’t looking for a typical busy Hotel, but instead, something a little more laid back. My research paid off, and we found what seemed to be the perfect spot for our Holiday in July.  The Cabins at Terrace Beach had several types of accommodation, but the one that caught my eye was the Lodge Suites – no children, and no pets permitted. ( not that we have a problem with either, but when you are looking for a quiet, romantic getaway, you can understand why this appealed to us )

Cabins at Terrace Beach

We loved their motto: “Check In Chill Out”.  Right from the time we checked in with the friendly, helpful Lady at the Front Desk, we knew we had picked the right spot.  We were given all the info we needed about the place, and headed out to find the Lodge.

The Lodge Suites at the Cabins at Terrace Beach Ucluelet

The Lodge was situated just a few steps from a short path down to Terrace Beach. The building was in the Forest, with views of the Ocean from the back deck ( and the floor to ceiling windows ) 🙂 Access to the Wild Pacific Trail was also just steps away, which was most convenient for us. The Lodge can be rented out for Weddings or various other functions/meetings.  There is a “Great Room” where everyone can gather by the Fireplace, read in the windowseats while gazing upon the water, or simply hang out and socialize.

Great Room at the Lodge

We spent a few minutes taking pictures in that huge room, looking out the windows at the trail and the water, and just soaking in the comfort of the fireplace, after arriving to a cool, rainy Day. Next, we found our Suite, and were very pleased with it, as well.  It had a King Sized Bed ( always mandatory for us ) a couple of huge Skylights, a Rainfall Showerhead as well as a two-person Soaker Tub, and did I already mention the floor-to-ceiling windows looking out to the ocean? 😉 There were vaulted ceilings, a small fridge, Coffee Maker and Tea Kettle, a few glasses and cups etc. There was a fireplace, a flat screen T.V., a cozy sitting area, and tons of room.

Lodge Suite at Cabins at Terrace Beach

Lots of Room

Bathroom Sink

Soaker Tub for Two

As soon as we had a look around our room and put all our bags away, we wanted to check out the little path that led down to Terrace Beach. The slight drizzle of rain had subsided by then, so we headed outside for a peek. We were greeted by this sign:

Bird Atop Sign

That was the start to our first Day of our Ucluelet Adventure ….

My intention after our Summer  2015 Road Trip to Tofino had been to write 5 Blog Posts about it in fairly quick succession, but as you can see, I have fallen a bit behind.  At least I got the first 3 posts out in a timely fashion…

As mentioned before, we stayed at the Tin Wis, and this is where we had Breakfast every morning, during our stay.  They had a great selection of Breakfast items on the Menu, good sized portions, a lovely staff, and delicious food – all at very reasonable prices.  We are not “grab a muffin and a coffee” kind of Breakfast People – we prefer a leisurely, relaxing, sit-down Breakfast, and they did not disappoint.

Breakfast at Tin Wis

Since we were exploring all over the place while there, we had Lunch at different places each Day.  One of my favourites was The Wolf In The Fog.

It was a rainy day that we were nearby there, visiting Art Galleries and little shops – we wandered in, not knowing what to expect.  I had one of the most amazing Chai Lattés I have ever had, as well as one of the most delicious, flavourful Quesadillas. We had hoped to get back for a dinner there some Night ( which was served Upstairs) but didn’t make it back.

It was warm and sunny most of the days we were there, so my husband suggested we walk around near our Hotel, in search of snacks. We stumbled upon Chocolate Tofino  which began a 3 Day long fascination …

Chocolate Tofino

Pure Heaven

I am not normally an “ice cream” person ( or even gelato ) but once I tasted the Salted Caramel Gelato, I’ll admit, even I had it 2 days in a row.  It was unreal – so incredible!!! They make their own chocolates right there, as well, and they all looked equally fantastic!

Salted Caramel Gelato

3 out of the 5 days we were there, we were hiking, so were quite hungry by the end of the day.  We needed to find somewhere casual to eat where we wouldn’t have a long wait.  Most of our hikes were closer to Ucluelet, and we found a place there called The Cedar Grill.  The first time we went there, we both had – hands down – the best burger and fries either of us has ever had. Once again, I am not much of a “burger and fries” kind of Gal, but that is what I was craving after hiking, and it was unbelievable.

Cedar Grill

The food was so good there, that another day after hiking, we decided to stop in again, before driving back to Tofino.  This time, my husband ordered his favourite – Lasagne – and I had one of mine – pasta with alfredo sauce.  Once again, Dinner was phenomenal.  We had a really amazing Waiter – I even mentioned to him that one day, I would write a blog post and mention the place, since we were both so blown away by the food.  I’m glad I am finally able to do so.

Delicious Dinner at Cedar Grill

Enjoying Cedar Grill Again

One Night, we were once again in the Art Galleries back in Tofino, and saw The Schooner Restaurant.  It looked lovely, so we decided to give it a try.  It was a more dressy place ( although most people tend to dress fairly casually from what we saw ) and had a fantastic menu.  I believe I had steak, and my husband had fish – both were incredible, as were the cocktails. The service was impeccable.

Schooner Restaurant Tofino

Prior to our trip, my dearest Friend had told me we ” had to” go to Shelter Restaurant in Tofino before we left.  We were able to get a reservation the night before we were to return Home, and we’re so glad we did.  When we pulled up, it looked super cool and funky – many patrons were sitting on the deck out front, gazing across the street at the water. We chose a table inside ( as I tend to get cool easily ) but the view was just as good, as we were seated by a window.

Shelter Tofino

I started with a cocktail – with freshly muddled raspberries – it was divine.  I had a chicken dish, my husband had some sort of Seafood Gumbo, and both were fabulous.  The service was amazing, also.

Cocktails at Shelter

Enjoying Shelter

After our wonderful dining experience, I finished off with a specialty coffee, and dessert. ( it may look small, but it was rich, delicious, and oh-so-decadent ) Nothing better than being on holiday, and enjoying yourself.  ( that’s kind of the whole point, isn’t it? ) 😉

Finishing Touch – Dessert at Shelter

I have to say, during our 5 day stay in the Tofino area, we had a lot of fantastic food. We had everything from burgers, fish & chips etc. to steak and pasta – and from very casual to fancy. The food was consistently great, the prices were never out of line, and the service was amazing.  They sure know how to keep you wanting to come back for more …

One of the main reasons we went to Tofino is that we both enjoy hiking, and Nature Photography.  From all the research I did in advance of our trip, it certainly looked like we were going to see some amazing things, regardless of whether the weather was sunny or rainy.  I made sure to bring clothes for extreme changes in temperatures, and conditions.  This turned out to be a wise decision.

We basically spent 3 solid Days hiking.  We began our journey on the Wild Pacific Trail which was close to Ucluelet, rather than Tofino.

Wild Pacific Trail Sign

It didn’t take long to realize that the “posted times” that it would take to get from one point to another ( according to the signs ) were not going to apply to us.  We are not capable of quickly walking past breathtakingly beautiful scenery, without stopping to take it all in, and capturing the wild beauty with our cameras.

Rugged Coastline

I usually enjoy being outdoors most when it is hot and sunny, and am definitely not one to go for walks in inclement weather.  However, many people have said that Stormwatching in this area is incredible, with crashing waves making for stunning entertainment … so I simply put on my newly-acquired rainjacket, and went with it.  After all, that was why we were there – to witness and capture Nature’s best.

Crashing Waves

One thing we really noticed even during the course of a hike, was that it could be grey skies one minute, then the sun would come out the next.  It was awesome how this drastically changed how everything appeared.  There were many lookout points along the way, and we made sure to stop for photo opportunities at pretty much every one.

Sunny Wild Pacific Trail

The “Lighthouse Loop” was one of the shortest and easiest sections of the trails – it would be very Family-friendly if you were thinking of taking children there.  Just as a note – there are no Washrooms along the trails, so it is advisable to go in the Portable ones in the Parking Lot prior to entering the trail. This loop was “supposed” to take 45 minutes to an hour, and I think it took us about 3 hours, with all the stopping and picture-taking.

Lighthouse Loop Sign

When we finally made it to the Lighthouse, we were in for a real treat – the moment we arrived and climbed on the rocks, a Mama Whale and her baby swam closeby.  There were Tourists from all over the World there, and we pointed out the whales to them – even with language as a barrier, we were all united in our joy at witnessing these amazing creatures.  Many of them were seeing their very first whales, and were in complete awe.

Lighthouse Loop Namesake

One of the most amazing things we saw was on our last Day of hiking.  There were a pair of Eagles perched on a rock, and we figured that by the time we got close enough to take pictures, they would be long gone.  We treaded as gently and quietly as we could, and were lucky enough to get some fairly decent pictures.  Even my little camera got an alright shot:

Majestic Eagles

We spent a great deal of time climbing on rocks to get closer to the water for better pictures. We were so busy trying to get scenic shots, that we had to make sure to set up the timer on my Husband’s camera in order to get some of us.  One of my favourite pictures of the two of us is this one:

Enjoying the Wild Pacific Trail

One of the things I most enjoyed during our hikes was seeing the Broken Islands off in the distance – just a fantastic sight, and the subject of many paintings by local Artists, as we discovered at several Art Galleries on other days.  There is just something about them – the shape of the trees etc. – that just draws you in.

Broken Islands

It is hard to describe all the incredibly beautiful scenery along the rugged coastline that we saw over the course of those 3 days spent hiking.  We took hundreds and hundreds of pictures each, and I wish I could post so many more.  If you love beautiful views, enjoy nature, like hiking and photography, then I would highly recommend visiting the Wild Pacific Trail near Ucluelet B.C., on Vancouver Island.

View From Wild Pacific Trail

     One of the things my Husband most wanted me to see on our recent trip to Tofino, was Long Beach.  He had happy memories of his Family taking him there when he was a child, and he wished me to see just how amazing it was.  Long Beach is a part of the Pacific Rim National Park Reserve , so there is a small fee to visit it – you can get a Day Pass, or one for several days, which will save you money. It is definitely worthwhile, as you will want to visit it, and the other beaches, more than once. 🙂

Entrance to Long Beach

    One of the first things we saw ( other than lots of Surfers ) as we walked from the car to the beach, was Incinerator Rock, which was pretty awesome.  The sun was out, it was warm, but everything looked a little bit misty/hazy.

Incinerator Rock

     The beach seemed to go on forever ( yes, it lived up to its name ) 😉 so we were able to have a leisurely stroll, enjoying the view, with the waves lapping at our feet. We took so many pictures of waves and Surfers – the place had a really cool vibe to it.

Long Beach

          One of the cutest things we saw while walking along the beach was a Mother showing her children how to balance on a surfboard – it was absolutely adorable.

Surfing Technique

     The waves were just incredible, and it was fascinating watching all the people surfing.  I would imagine that the water was very cold, and we had no desire to find out.

Long Beach Waves

     Even though there were a lot of people there, it never felt crowded, due to the sheer size of the beach.  There were plenty of places to lay on your lounge chairs or towels, and still have your privacy.  It would be a great place to spend an entire day, if you had the time.

Long Beach Little Surfer Girl

     I’ve never been anywhere, before this, where people were so incredibly mellow.  It was great to see everyone so relaxed, and having a good time – absolutely no stress on Long Beach. It is a place I would certainly like to visit again some day.

Waiting For the Right Wave

Last week was my first week of Holidays for 2015.  As I have mentioned many times before, for me, a “Holiday” means getting off my feet ( which I am constantly on at Work ) relaxing, and laying in the sun.  It means catching up on sleep, not having to set alarm clocks, and feeling rejuvenated. I love the feeling that I don’t have to feel obligated to “do” anything, except for kick back, and enjoy …

When your Passports are expired, and you are on a budget, your options are limited.  My Husband has always come along on “my kind” of vacations, so this time, when he suggested something different, I wasn’t going to refuse. He mentioned he wanted to go to Tofino on Vancouver Island to hike, take photographs, explore the beaches etc. I had never been there before, and I knew this would be a very different kind of vacation, but I still agreed. I will admit, I was a bit apprehensive.

We live on the Sunshine Coast of B.C., so we drove the half hour to the ferry, took the 40 – minute ferry ride to Horseshoe Bay, then an hour and 40 minute ferry ride from there to Nanaimo, on Vancouver Island.  From there, it was a 3 hour drive to Tofino.

Road Sign

It was a beautiful, warm and sunny day,  so we certainly enjoyed the ferry rides and the scenery.  It was great to sit on the upper deck of the ferry in the hot sun, anticipating the week ahead …

Scenery

Once we arrived in Tofino, we were anxious to find our Hotel, get checked in, and get our feet in the sand. I just had to get a picture of the sign welcoming us to our destination.

Welcome Sign

I had us booked in at the Tin Wis Hotel, right on Mackenzie Beach, which was very private, quiet, and sandy.  Most of the beaches where we live are quite rocky, so this was a welcome sight. 🙂  We could hardly wait to get out and explore.

We quickly unloaded the car, checked in, and went and found our room.  I had made sure that we got a King sized bed, Ocean view, and a fireplace when I booked it. I had heard the weather could be all over the map – from warm and sunny, to cool, rainy/windy/foggy … and could change fairly quickly.  I was going to learn just how true this could be.  Thankfully, I had packed everything from bathing suits and tank tops to full on raincoat and rubber boots, just in case. ( we were going to be hiking in a Rainforest, after all )

Our room was on the ground floor, so we could literally walk out the patio door, take about 10 steps, turn left, and be at the beach in about 20 seconds.  We had changed into lighter clothes after our road trip, and were happy to take a long stroll along the beach, and enjoy the warm sunshine.  It was an absolutely gorgeous beach – nice and private, and not crazy busy.

Archway

The archway to the beach had a carving welcoming guests to pass through and enjoy …

Carving

The next picture is of our building:

Our Building

This shot is of the main building:

Main Building

Looking through our patio door towards the beach:

Beach View

Since we had arrived mid-afternoon, we didn’t want to venture too far the first night, after our long drive. We had dinner in the Restaurant at the Hotel – the Beachfront Bistro.

Dining Room

After Dinner, we tried really hard to stay up to watch our first sunset there. I’d had only 3 hours of sleep the night before, we’d driven much of the day, and we were both very tired. It was, however, Summer Solstice, and we certainly didn’t want to miss that sunset.

I will post a few of those sunset pictures very soon …

     Happy New Year to all of you!  I hope that this will be a great year for us all.  Now that the new year is upon us, I’d like to take a few minutes to reflect on some of the good things that happened for me in 2013.

     The biggest things that happened for me involved music – the thing I love most. 🙂  For much of my life, I have considered myself to be primarily a singer. ( and I do still play the piano, occasionally ) I love to sing, and there isn’t much that brings me more joy in life than singing something I love in front of an appreciative audience. It’s a really good feeling.  I sing simply because I enjoy it, and it makes me feel happy – I’ve never had any delusions about fame or fortune.  This past year, however, I branched out and started writing lyrics with a new close friend, who writes music.  We wrote 2 songs together so far, one of which is currently being re-mixed by another mutual friend. We got together several times each month to work on music, have long chats, and a few laughs. I also became a Member of SOCAN , which was pretty exciting. I look forward to a lot more songwriting this year, and being able to share the results with you all.

     We continued  going to Karaoke fairly regularly, as it really is good practice to keep the voice in tune, and help get over the nerves. Every time you go, you are faced with a new audience, and another opportunity to try different genres, and build your confidence. This is especially good for those of us that are innately shy.  We brought a lot of new friends out with us to these fun nights last year, and had a lot of really amazing times, both singing and dancing. It is always a good crowd – supportive, down to earth, and fun-loving.

     As always, we did a lot of hiking during the year – probably more than the previous ones. We still favour Francis Point,  still go to Smuggler’s Cove once in a while, as well as the Skookumchuck, but we went on a new one this year: The Tetrahedron.  This was very different than any of the other hikes we’ve been on up here – and I will write a post about it soon, with some pics. 

     On days when we didn’t have the time to go on long hikes, we went on a lot of walks at nearby Davis Bay. 

Davis Bay Walk

     It is always a pleasant walk – the scenery is gorgeous, and the people you meet always have a smile for you.  We often follow our walk with a coffee and snack at Pier 17 across the way – we sit at a little Bistro Table overlooking the water – so relaxing. We have witnessed many a glorious sunset over Davis Bay, from that vantage point.

     As of last year, my Husband and I now both have Kayaks. This was one of the best decisions we’ve made in the 5 years  that we’ve been living up on B.C.’s Sunshine Coast, hands down.  As I have mentioned several times before, I have mainly been considered a “City Girl”, both by my friends, and myself, in the past.  I have to tell you, though, there is something absolutely mind-blowingly amazing about being out in a kayak on a sunny Summer’s Day.  Not only is there the obvious fact that you are getting fresh air, exercise, sunshine etc., but it is just the most incredibly peaceful and therapeutic thing, as well.  It didn’t matter how bad my week had been, or how stressful – I simply could not wipe the smile off my face each time we paddled up the Inlet.  The scenery was incredible – the wildlife abundant: we regularly saw Eagles, Seals, Salmon jumping out of the water, Sea Stars and Sea Cucumbers and so much more. We found some little beaches that are water-access only, where you can go and have your Lunch, and relax for a while before you continue on your journey. Some of these places even have places to camp, and portable washroom facilities.  I have to say that the times we went out kayaking this past Summer were definitely some of the happiest times we had all year. ( and now that we have the Kayaks, this fun doesn’t cost a thing )

Sechelt Inlet Kayaking

    We had a family member come for a nice visit in the Summer time, as well, and I went on a Road Trip with some good friends for a few days in September.  There were many Dinner Parties, Barbecues, Fundraisers, nights of dancing and singing and visiting with friends and family …

     So, once again, the year was filled with music, enjoying the great outdoors, and spending quality time with the people we love the most … not a bad year at all, if you ask me. 🙂

     I wish you all a healthy, happy, joyful New Year in 2014 – may it be the year that your dreams come true !!!