I would like to start the New Year off by wishing all of you a very happy, healthy, and prosperous 2010 ! 2009 was, by many accounts, a very difficult year for most of us, with the bad economy and all. It has been a struggle just to get by, to try and keep food on the table and a roof over our heads. Many people had their hours cut back, or lost their jobs entirely. It was a tough year – full of struggles, dampened hopes, and many tears.
Somehow, we made it through, and although we may be stronger for it, it still wasn’t pleasant. I, for one, am glad to see the end of 2009, as it was definitely not one of the better years in my life, or for many people I know.
I recently made a comment on Facebook about how I look forward to the ” feeling ” ( whether that be perceived or real ) of a ” clean slate ” when a new year approaches. It really doesn’t matter if it is simply how we view it, or if it is real – what matters is what we do with it. Personally, I think of it as having hope that things will improve, that we will be given a ” fresh start “, that we have another chance to make good choices – choices that will improve our lives, and hopefully, the lives of others.
I am not one to make New Year’s Resolutions per se, and broadcast them to anyone who will listen, but today, I have already written down a list of goals for myself for this year. Telling people the things you are ” going to do ” is great, and it is a positive thing to actually speak the words and ” put it out there “, but the older I get, the more I realize I’d rather “do” than just “say”. It is very easy to say things, but much harder to actually put in the time and effort, and make them happen. The way I see it, I have my personal list, and as I accomplish items on that list, I will share them with family and friends. I have nothing to prove to anyone – my list is simply for me, and the people that care about me will be happy when I put my hopes into action….
I hope that all of you have hopes, dreams, or goals that you want to realize this year – things that you enjoy but have perhaps put off, things that you don’t feel are important enough, whatever the case may be. If there is some thing you love to do, or would love to try ( and it isn’t hurting anyone else ) – why not let this be the year you actually do it, or try it? I know I say this all the time, but life really is too short to only dream/wish/hope/imagine, and not DO something to make yourself happy. It is very easy to blame others, or your financial situation, or your work environment, ( or any number of things ) or find reasons why you shouldn’t or ” can’t ” do things for yourself – believe me, I know – but ultimately, all excuses or fears aside, nobody else can make us happy. All we have to do is love ourselves enough to make the things we hope for become our reality. If you feel you can’t do it on your own, friends and family always have words of encouragement for you to follow your dreams, and that will get you through even the darkest of times.
On that note, I would, once again, like to thank everyone who has supported me during this hard year – knowing you believe in me, and my music, gives me great strength. Whether it be kind words of encouragement, compliments on things I have accomplished, buying my CD or downloading a song, or most importantly – being there with a hug when I need it most – your support has helped me enormously. Your continued faith in me is truly what keeps me going.
All the best to you, and your families, for a fabulous 2010 !